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Myths about therapy

Myths about Therapy

10 common myths about therapy:

Therapy is only for people with serious mental health conditions, so a therapist is not going to be bothered about my problems.

In reality, therapy is not just about serious mental health conditions, it is about helping anyone dealing with stress, life changes, relationship issues, or personal development, big or small.

Seeking therapy means you are weak.

Reaching out for support is never a weakness, it requires courage, honesty, and self-awareness, and is a really brave step to take.

Therapists just sit quietly, nod, and hand out advice.

This is a classic myth that seems to have come from films and TV! In reality, therapy is about working with a professional who will help you to recognize patterns, shift your unhelpful thoughts and feelings, and build practical coping skills if that is what you need.

Therapy means lying on a couch talking about your childhood.

Although most therapy sessions do involve sitting in chairs facing each other, there is no specific requirement for you to lie down! Sessions are about having a meaningful conversation about whatever feels important to you, and sometimes past experiences will be part of what is explored.

Once you start therapy, you will be in it forever.

Some types of therapy are goal-focused, and often take place over a shorter period of time (usually several weeks). Grief counselling may take longer, but there is no set number of sessions, and you may find that you dip in-and-out of it at various stages throughout your life.

Talking to friends is basically the same as therapy.

Friends can offer support, but therapists are trained professionals who provide objective guidance and evidence-based strategies.

Therapists can read your mind.

Therapists rely on what you share, though they are trained to notice patterns, emotions, and behaviors.

Therapy is too expensive or not worth the cost.

Each person will have their own beliefs, values and financial circumstances that will influence whether they feel therapy is "too expensive" or "not worth the cost". Ultimately, it’s about how invested you are in yourself to make a change, and finding a therapist who is in alignment with your circumstances.

A therapist will tell you to leave your partner or blame your parents.

Therapists do not make decisions for you or assign blame - they help you better understand yourself and your choices.

Therapy is just "common sense."

Therapy uses research-backed approaches that often uncover unhelpful patterns and perspectives that are not obvious on your own.